there is bitter tired


32-year-old Dr Lee is the first successful Jiangmen disease control department staff into AIDS gay group, his other identity Jiangmen CDC's high-risk behavior intervention team (the "senior cadres of the team") member, also HIV voluntary counseling clinic doctor. Talking about his work, Dr Lee shy face full of a sense of accomplishment, with these hidden promote AIDS prevention among gay men face to face,Louboutin Pas cher, their "entry" and did not break them quiet, but also to get their respect, listening, understanding and tolerance.
 
Dr Lee said the next stage,Louboutin Mary Jane, the CDC will jointly market the Red Ribbon Care Association and various urban disease control department, extensive recruitment of gay interventions volunteers professional training, AIDS prevention through peer education.
 
Successful introductions informant lurking
 
Background: intravenous drug use, sex, gay men are currently the three major epidemic bridge population, 2009 new infections in the country, MSM transmission accounted for 32.5% of new infections soared in 2007 than 20.3 %. However, as the current policy is mainly to deal with before the two populations, as Jiangmen "Guangdong old AIDS epidemic disaster area", the gay population and its imminent intervention. The reality but hidden groups in society relatively closed to the outside world is very sensitive.
 
Namely the first time into the group kicked
 
Southern Metropolis Daily: how do you find a gay organization?
 
Dr Lee: mainly through voluntary counseling and testing and outpatient visits by previous track and searching, and they became friends, and through them on.
 
South are: they do not worry you?
 
Li: certainly the beginning of work to do informant told them the nature of my work. Contact a long time,http://www.wangdaisky.com/home.php?mod=space&uid=118405, the establishment of a trust relationship with them, we have their data strictly confidential help line people will know a lot of insiders.
 
South are: the circle of life?
 
Lee: I joined some of the Q & nbsp; Q Groups, each ranging from 200--400 people.
 
South are: What are the rules circle it?
 
Lee: profiles term is more, such as play a male role called "man", code-named 1, female characters called "sister", codenamed 0 as well as male and female roles are available, code is 0.5. Most people into the group will cause a lot of people are concerned and alert, information will come to you. Information content and sorting are particular: the age + height + weight + orientation (ie code), not a circle do not know what it meant, so the first time I was kicked out of the herd.
 
To "1" status into again
 
South are: the first attempt failed.
 
Li: direct staff capacity AIDS does not work,http://gallery.lightspeed.ch/displayimage.php?pid=7950&page=255, although the person in the warp, the support circle of managers,http://www.cecyteo.edu.mx/site/index.php, but the organization of events,http://modofire.ddns.net/bellabbs/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=1287, some people who listen to publicize epidemic prevention station, said not to participate.
 
South are: are afraid reveal the identity.
 
Lee: No way, only to insiders identity go.
 
South are: that you are "male" or "female",http://www.icbellagio.it/bbpress/profile.php?id=203271?
 
Lee: 1st. But in the Q & nbsp; identity Q group is 0.5. Circle gatherings organized activities are generally mutually "find friends", we are very excited, especially when there are new entrants, we are very alert. If that man handsome gas, I would like to see the same beauty.
 
South are: What is the first time the party scene?
 
Li: The first time I went, I was very low-key to hide in the corner, next to the informants, people thought we were "lovers."
 
South are: We do not know how to distinguish between "men and women"?
 
Lee: If the person is interesting, will take the initiative to ask is, "brother" or "sister", according to the characteristic dress, talk tone and character of temper, insiders generally able to see it.
 
His eyes gay
 
Background: Gay ordinary people are not familiar with this group, what accounted for almost a whole community? Nobody knows. But certainly, they exist in all walks of life and at all levels, secular morality can not be accepted, but can be understood emotionally.
 
Seen the youngest only 13 years old
 
South are: now you are familiar with, and they will tell you the true status?
 
Lee: We are all human beings,Louboutin Homme,http://my.5754.cn/home.php?mod=spacecp&ac=blog&blogid=, have feelings, in addition to the orientation is not the same. After becoming friends will exchange chat. Circles, almost all walks of life, some teachers have students, police workers.
 
South are: the age of it?
 
Lee: I have seen the largest have more than 50 years,http://forum.ea3w.com/?mod=spacecp&ac=blog&blogid=, a minimum of only 13 years old, I heard only started reading. All friends go.
 
They also have true love
 
South are: feelings between gay men with heterosexual there a difference?
 
Lee: I think it is almost, has both good and bad, there is a real "engagement", but also sexual transaction.
 
South are: in fact, they also have true love.
 
Lee: Yes. I know of a case, two pairs of "lovers" are gay and lesbian,Louboutin Mariage, married to cope with cross elders. Nominally organized their own family, in real life are interfered with each other or with their "lovers" together.
 
Lurker tangle
 
Background: Due to the particularity nature of the work, both physically and mentally senior cadres of the team members face a severe test,http://bbs.52zz.org/bbs/home.php?mod=space&uid=131937, in addition to from family, society, friends, and other aspects of stress and anxiety.
 
Orientation or excitation potential
 
South are: contact with them, you have fear when it?
 
I was a little worried before: Lee. For example, the first meeting, I drink Coke, not drinking, drunk fear wrong thing, wrong thing, or the occurrence of other unforeseen circumstances.
 
South are: live a long time, will consciously or unconsciously to themselves as insiders?
 
Lee: there may be, there may be a tendency to stimulate human potential. But I am pretty good, it is now her daughter. (Laughter)
 
He had caused his wife worried
 
South are: family know you did this one?
 
Lee: I know, it is still relatively supported. But beginning still worried, very worried before my wife. We often exchange, then slowly understand, after all, the nature of the work,Louboutin Soirée, no way to work. Now I talk qq, she is very obedient, do not bother.
 
I hope more inclusive society
 
South are: usually the job also sacrifice a lot of time to rest, right?
 
Lee: We do this also in order to "them" Well, a lot of insiders are appreciated not only for "their" physical and mental health, but also is responsible for the entire community. AIDS prevention process is very difficult, there is bitter tired, but also a sense of accomplishment. If the whole society more tolerant point, our work will be carried out better.
 
Written: Southern Reporter Tang Bo